tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13956774.post115586871560066834..comments2023-05-12T07:18:01.917-06:00Comments on Future Me: Worst Week EverFuture Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09159116814887852763noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13956774.post-1156171414929780382006-08-21T08:43:00.000-06:002006-08-21T08:43:00.000-06:00"So wedding planning and buying a house and workin..."So wedding planning and buying a house and working full time and trying to lose weight and take care of a little dogger and trying to be a nice happy fiance just doesn't seem to work all at once right now."<BR/><BR/>I agree, and I don't have a dog...<BR/><BR/>I didn't make it to my goal for my wedding, but I was at my lowest weight and thought I looked good in my dress, and that was fine. Also I was so deliriously happy to be marrying Jon I didn't really have any time to worry about things.<BR/><BR/>The weekend-recharge sounds a good idea - hope it worked out that way. Maybe you should schedule another weekend when you don't do any weddingy stuff between now and then, if you can. And if something stresses you out, there's no obligation to do it unless you feel it is worth it. There is no rule that says a wedding must include certain things. My bridesmaids chose their own shoes ;)<BR/><BR/>Good luck. You'll get there!Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14530845147391401083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13956774.post-1155957250234575632006-08-18T21:14:00.000-06:002006-08-18T21:14:00.000-06:00Jeni, I want to second Lynne's post! Being "the b...Jeni, <BR/>I want to second Lynne's post! Being "the bride" and getting ready for the big day is just a crazy, special and stressful time. I don't know that there is really any way around it!! :) Take care of yourself, and try to enjoy as much of it as you can. Somehow it will all come together for you in the next 8 weeks, and then you will be able to sit back and just live in the moment. Being surrounded with all of the family and friends that mean the most to you is an amazing thing. I still remember taking the time during my reception to look around at everyone enjoying themselves, and being just overwhelmed that everyone that I loved was there. <BR/><BR/>Okay, sorry to ramble. I think that you have a great plan to kick it up a notch and make the most of the time you have to get ready. YOU GO GIRL!! :)Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12218693906162990875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13956774.post-1155927083434267972006-08-18T12:51:00.000-06:002006-08-18T12:51:00.000-06:00Oh Jeni, I swear this post came straight out of my...Oh Jeni, I swear this post came straight out of my diary a year ago! <BR/><BR/>I too planned a wedding, bought a house, worked full time, tried to lose weight and tried my best to be a good daughter/fiance/friend all at the same time and there were many times within those last few weeks where I thought I just wasn't going to make it!<BR/>That was the most stressful and busiest time of my life and so I totally feel for you and am wishing you good, happy thoughts! I so can sympathize. <BR/>Also, I could talk to you for hours about all those fears you listed! I've been there! But I'll also tell you that I look back at that time as the most exciting and special time in my life to date(even though it was totally scary!) All I can say is good luck sweetie! You've been doing great so far and you certainly have what it takes to pull this all off!<BR/>And if you ever need someone to complain to I'm always here for ya!Lynnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15273710995149341437noreply@blogger.com